are a happily married gay couple. They are some of the nicest guys I've ever met, bar none.
And I'm lucky enough to work as their employee. it's beautiful to see them work in the same office-- so many heterosexual couples would be unable to do such a thing, and yet this pair of men make it look easy.
No, even more so. They make it look FUN. They enjoy spending time together and when they have complications or issues at work, they bond over them, often with laughter, instead of being at each other's throats.
I am so inspired by the way they speak to each other. And I can see the moments when something might go wrong, and these maestros change the tune to safer stomping grounds. Especially lately, I very much appreciate their ability to not allow their significant other to "get in their head" and cause stupid, pointless arguments.
It's so easy to hurt those closest to you, especially if they are emotional. Keep in mind your words.
Mind your tone all the more.
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